The past is a place in life that does not have to haunt you. There are those that will feel that it is their duty to judge you, false. It is their duty to be true to who they are and judge no one. People are imperfect and some will do very regrettable things that they wish could be taken back,but there is no way to make that happen. So, they punish themselves by constantly reminding themselves of what they have done. Self imprisonment is only built by the hands of one's own mind, meaning, the thoughts lock one in a state of regress. Self condemnation will keep one feeling undeserving of a second chance at life to include, happiness, success, love and trust. God will give you a second chance at life and not judge you that is really what matters. If you are a changed person who does not do the things you use to, and you are true to that, then live like a new person. Be your number one advocate.
Your past does not define you today so, do not let others wash your face with your past, sometimes others are toxic to your growth and they should probably have a back sit in your life, no longer front row. Surround yourself with positivity and positive people, read positive materials, read a scripture everyday from which to receive spiritual nourishment. You need to hear positive things and see positive acts, give yourself positive reinforcement for being a person of change. Your mind needs to know that there has been a change, think good thoughts and say good things to yourself. "Positive Thoughts, Positive Talk," is my slogan. If someone says to you, I remember when you........it is truly o.k. to stop them mid-sentence and say today is new, my past is where it belongs or just let them know boundaries are being overstepped and do not defend your position. Hold your head up and believe that you are great today and that God wanted you here, He blew the breathe of life into you and woke you up to see another day. This let's you know that you have the right to live not simply exist. Let God's grace be the fire underneath you that motivates you to live in your second chance.
Do not regret your today, it is a grand opportunity to pursue happiness and the you that shines. Looking back should not be an option, just focus on looking ahead, step out of the self-made prison and knock it down. As hard as it may seem, replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts, challenge yourself to face fears and believe in your abilities to conquer them. Hey, remember, your past is where it belongs and it should not do anything, but stay there. As you begin this transformation and are told by others that you have changed and you're not like you use to be. Well, that is the idea, take it as a compliment, smile and say thanks. They are right, you have changed and for the better. Make your best effort to live for today and it will become your way of life. It is so great that you have the power to live in happiness.
With inspiration,
Oreadea
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